Hey bloggy friends! It’s raining cats & dogs here, thanks to hurricane Ida. We can always use the rain, but 4-6 inches at once is a bit much for most people. But I really love rainy days like this.
I have been on a quest to try to simplify my life a bit. I have always tried to live a simple life, but somewhere along the way I picked up some extra baggage. Now I need to dispose of it and try to make a fresh start. It’s time to get back to the basics and not let other things creep back in to take up my time.
I have been doing better at not being on the computer so much. I do enjoy being online and there is always something fun & interesting to do. But that can also keep me from doing things I should be doing, if I’m not careful.
I am my own keeper, and its time for me to make some changes. With so much going in my life that I cannot control, its time to take advantage of what I CAN control.
I want to keep my focus on my family, friends & home, and also work on my relationship with the Lord. Every aspect of our lives has suffered due to things beyond our control. I want to try to make it less noticeable in our daily living. The Serenity Prayer comes to mind and I am trying to remind myself of it every day.
One change will be less time spent worrying, and more praying. I am a natural worrier, but I want to try to stop doing this so much. I know it’s not healthy.
Another thing is de-cluttering. I know i have too much stuff in this house. I have reached the point of suffocation with it! That’s not a good thing. So I will be disposing of some possessions. Things are just that, things. I need more peace in my life, not more things!
I may have an online yard sale soon, if time permits. So stay tuned for that. Maybe some of my things will work for someone else.
I will no longer be visiting some online forums where I have spent countless hours in past. I have enjoyed it, but I really do not have time to do those things anymore. They are awesome sites, but I feel the need to step away from them at this time.
I am also going to let my magazine subscriptions run out and not renew them. As much as I enjoy them, I get a lot more from visiting my online friends & blog friends, and a more realistic view of how things can be done. And that alone will save some money for my family, so its a plus!
I am trying to cook more healthy meals for my family. I’m spending more time reading my Bible and other literature and less time watching tv. I’m making a conscious effort to get a little more exercise, even if it means just walking in the yard. I am purposely avoiding the thrift stores, because I do not need anything. And I am consciously trying to save money whenever and wherever possible.
I want to stop letting worry and sadness fill my daily life. Our family has had a lot to be sad about, and our lives have been dramatically & irreversibly altered by the actions of others. But there has to be a way to find peace and heal so we can put the pain & sadness behind us and learn to be happy again.
I think the first step in doing this is to realize that even in the midst of this turmoil, we can still stop and count our blessings, as I mentioned in my last post.
So I am reverting back to the simple things in life and hope to help my family overcome some of the hard stuff.
If you have any other ideas to help simplify, please share them. There is an old saying that says, “ ‘Tis a gift to be simple.” That’s how I want to live from now on.
Have a great day and be blessed!


13 sweet friends said....:
Hi Carolyn, believe it or not, I loved your post today. I understand more than you can imagine where you are coming from, and I for one have done several of those things myself. I have let almost all my subscriptions run out. I only get a few now and that is much more manageable not to mention all the magazines that aren't cluttering up the house, which cuts down on that. I also have gotten rid of alot of "stuff"...granted I have more that I could get rid of, but I made a huge dent in it. I felt a major burden lifted from me when I did some of these things.
Sweetie, I will be keeping you in my prayers and I hope your find what it is your need.
Hugs,
Cindy
I had to learn to say no to people wanting me to become involved in committees, groups, organizations, etc. It was hard at first, but I've gotten to be a real pro at saying no! It's so easy to become overly involved in outside activities.
Great post!
I think that we are at the same point. I have been more depressed these last two weeks than at any other point in my life. I think it is because stuff has come between God and I. I need to get back to being still and leaning on the Lord more. Your post has given me pause for thought. Thanks
Theresa
Ya know.....after the past few days and my latest posts on CHK, after reading your post, this post here I can honestly say I feel better! As I was reading I felt a calm come over me. I have been so worried about my booth and getting enough made and Christmas and money, and Thanksgiving dinner and ALL of my Christmas baking that I was literally making myself sick!
I got some great advice from everyone today but none of it really clicked til I read your post!
Its hard to explain, I feel like I can breath and my fingers are tingling right now. Weird? Or a sign? Am I nutso?
IDK...but thank you:)
Carolyn, Your goals are good ones. It is easy to lose focus on what's really important, but you haven't. Pray is good. Hang in there and let us know how everything is going. ~Ann
I have been thinking about this very thing also. I have been cleaning out and I need to do some things a little differently also.
I have made myself go in several directions and I don't like it.
Take care of yourself and know that I do understand what you are doing.
I need to post on my blog though because it has been over 2 weeks since I have been there.
Take care of yourself.
Maxine
great post carolyn!
i have been doing alot of reflecting on what is important and also decluttering!!!
everytime i clean off a shelf or fill a box i feel lifted. :)
maybe those goodies wil be an inspiration to someone else or give someone less fortunate a new start on a cozy home.
i love reading different forums , but seem to be drawn to the blogs more an more. i think its more personal.
post us some healthy recipes when you can. :)
kim
Hi Carolyn,
I so understand what you are saying. Though we haven't had anyhting horrible happen here like you have, it is a new season in our lives Behind My Red Door and I just felt it was time to change things. I have been doing the same things lately. With Lili in my life now and being her part time care giver, a lot of things had to give. I have been sorting and purging and simplifying as well. With all the gear I am bring into our home for her, other things have found their way to family and friends or the trash or recycle center. And I am not even close to being done. After the new year, I intend to do even more.
I hope it gives you a new sense of calm when you see your home simplified. I feel a sense of order in our homes reflects that sense of order in our lives as well!
Have a great week!
Carolyn,
What a wonderful post. You have been through so much and simple is good. I have made countless trips to Goodwill lately and I'm still not finished. Thanks for being such an inspiration to me.
hugs,
Pam
Wow, that is a LOT of major changes! I understand how you feel, really. I am very sensitive to things going on around me and I get stressed way too easy, but I keep trying to catch myself and see what I'm doing and get my focus right again. I like these kinds of reminders, and remember, we're not in it alone! Karen
I know exactly where you're coming from Carolyn. Not only have I had the need to simplify my home, but my life as well. I haven't been on the computer as much, because life has kept me busy and I realized I was pushing myself! I have wondered how things were going with you....how did everything go? I've prayed for ya'll!
Tammy
GREAT BLOG, STOP BY & SAY HI :) GIO
Hey sweetie...this is a great post...I too am wanting to am wanting to 'clear' some stuff from my life....after moving here to be closer to mama and daddy I told Bill I never realized we had so much 'stuff'....there are boxes everywhere! I am going thru them little by little and giving alot of it to the kids...I never have been one to just have stuffed packed away...but there is just no room here and I know that if something doesn't absolutely have special meaning to me than I can live without it...
I admire you for putting first things first...in this day and age we all need to step back and take a good look at our lives and what truly matters...blees you dear friend...may each day bring you greater joy amd much more love and laughter...~Picket~
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